Thanks for taking time to respond.
Unfortunately, I have done all of these things, which is why I came to the forum to see if anyone had additional insight that the very nice, but frankly not very knowledgable, WD support staff aren’t aware of.
BTW, one of the things I noticed was that whenever a firmware update was pending, the system seemed to have additional problems.
I was using AFP, and frankly preferred it because it never had these issues. However, I could not find a way to prevent firmware updates (there was a certain version that no longer supports AFP, and apparently that is true of newer versions of macOS), and every time one was pending, the NAS freaked out in one way or another. I got tired of having to fight with the firmware update system, and also found that I finally needed to also update macOS, so I moved to SMB. That was going fine for a bit, but now I have this issue again.
For the record, it seems like if the NAS is connected for more than an hour or so, that is when this issue creeps in. If I disconnect and reconnect, that seems to often solve it, but every time it’s been connected for a while, this starts happening again.
It’s really infuriating, and this, combined with a flurry of other WD drive failures (a drive in the NAS failed, I replaced it with a new sealed drive, waited for it to rebuild, then that drive failed [I await the RMA results]; and several USB 3 external drives that I use for backup failing to mount even though they hadn’t been used for a year or two), I find it really hard to recommend WD products to anyone.
I am in the works to find a different solution for my NAS, but until then, anyone with experience solving this particular issue is welcome.