Problem with .XML data

I can get the thumbnails to show up just fine, what I am having probelms with is the .XML data.  

The data will show up if I go in the actual folder that the movie is located in, but I’ve noticed picture on these forums of people just going from side to side and it shows up without having to go into that folder, such as the picture below.

Picture Example.

I was wondering what I had to do to make it show up just scrolling across, and not having to go into the folder.

Cheers 

Why not have all you movie files, metathumbs & xml files in the one folder i.e MOVIES.

I could do that, but I was hoping for another way with folders, this way when I delete a folder off my drive since I am no longer using it, it will get rid of the metadata and picture and video file all at once.